Lauren Lima, MA, LMFT
Couple & Family Therapist
Lauren Lima, MA, LMFT
Couples & Family Therapist | Red Bank, NJ License #37FI00238600
Lauren Lima is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) at Aspera Therapy LLC in Red Bank, New Jersey. She works with individuals, couples, and families navigating trauma, grief, relationship ruptures, and the intergenerational patterns that quietly shape how we love, connect, and heal. Her approach balances deep compassion with a genuine commitment to accountability — creating a space where clients feel both supported and meaningfully challenged to grow.
Lauren works with individuals, couples, and families experiencing:
Grief and loss, including ambiguous loss and major life transitions
Trauma and PTSD, including relational and childhood trauma
Infidelity and betrayal — rebuilding trust and restoring emotional safety
Intergenerational trauma and inherited patterns of pain
Attachment wounds and difficulty forming secure connections
Relationship strain — rebuilding closeness and intimacy after conflict or life change
Parenting challenges, including first-time parenting, blended families, launching adult children, and differing parenting styles
Separation, divorce, and co-parenting, including repairing relationships with children and adult children
What Lauren Treats
Lauren believes in the transformative power of therapy and brings genuine energy and commitment to every session. She tailors her work to each client's unique needs and history, walking alongside them whether they are seeking to heal from the past, strengthen current relationships, or build the future they envision.
A core thread through Lauren's work is the intergenerational lens — the recognition that the patterns, wounds, and relational dynamics we carry often originated long before us, and that healing them can ripple forward through families for generations.
Her clinical approach draws from:
EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) An evidence-based psychotherapy that addresses trauma and adverse life experiences beyond what talk therapy alone can reach, helping clients move toward lasting healing and resilience. Lauren has completed EMDR basic training.
Contextual Couples & Family Therapy An intergenerational approach that emphasizes fairness, accountability, and relational ethics as the foundation for rebuilding trust and healing within families and partnerships.
The Gottman Method A research-based framework for improving communication, resolving conflict, and deepening emotional connection in romantic relationships — one of the most extensively studied approaches in couples therapy.
Relational Life Therapy (RLT) A couples therapy model, developed by Terry Real, that helps partners break out of entrenched conflict cycles, build personal accountability, and cultivate genuine intimacy. Lauren’s training in RLT is ongoing.
Systems Theory A perspective that understands individual behavior and wellbeing through the lens of the familial, relational, and societal systems in which a person is embedded.
CBT and DBT Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) offer practical tools for managing anxiety, depression, emotional dysregulation, and relational challenges.
Lauren’s Approach to Therapy
Education & Credentials
EMDR Basic Training Completed
Relational Life Therapy- Level 1 trained
Lessons in Love Leader (Gottman Seven Principles for Singles)- completed training through the Gottman Institute
MA, Marriage & Family Therapy — Kean University
BA, Psychology — Kean University
Professional affiliations
NJAMFT Member
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